Ok, I've just put up a new website and have been trying to follow the instructions on iWebfaq.org about it... but I'm getting lost. I created a site map with the suggested program. I think I've uploaded it to a main file (step 6) but from here I am lost. (I use Cyberduck, am not a mobileme member, am using a2hosting.com)
Can anyone give me some very specific steps to show up on google searches?

I think the tutorial IS already very specific step by step. You won't find anything more step by step than that.

A lot of totally newbies people got it and I'm sure that you will get it as well if you read carefully and do everything step by step as described and of course if you want it.

Kind regards,
Cédric